The Word of God Over Our Emotions! A reminder in a world ruled by feelings

Today’s topic is going to be real, raw, and juicy. Some might get convicted, others might get upset, but we need to be people who love the truth—the Word of God—more than our emotions. I say this with love, because I’m still learning this too. I’m no expert—it truly takes grace to walk in truth when our feelings are screaming louder.

A Culture of Feelings: Emotions vs. The Word of God

We live in a culture that tells us to nurse and gratify our emotions and feelings above everything else. That mindset has crept into how we walk with God. The truth? Many of us obey our emotions more than we obey the Word. Our feelings have become our gods. But here’s the catch—whatever you feed most has the greatest hold over you. “For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.” (Galatians 6:8 NKJV). Unfortunately, many of us today are “title” Christians rather than true followers of Christ because we allow our emotions disciple us.

Plenty claiming Christ, but following feelings over Scripture. Bible’s open, popcorn’s ready—this plot writes itself. 🍿👀🙃

The Legal Lens: Earthly Laws/ Spiritual Laws

Let’s lay a foundation. Most of us believe in the law—the judicial system, judges, lawyers, enforcers. It’s set up to create fairness, order, and justice. Most countries have some form of judicial system that—at least in theory—is designed to judge matters fairly.

For instance, if someone steals to feed their starving family—he’s desperate, his family hasn’t eaten in two weeks, and he’s trying to survive. We can sympathize with him. Though we understand the desperation and even feel compassion, but legally? He still broke the law and will be judged accordingly. The judge doesn’t say, “Oh, your intentions were pure? Never mind.” His intentions might be noble, but a judge won’t throw out the case because of his emotions. He’ll still be held accountable. The judge will judge fairly based on the law, not emotions. Good intentions don’t erase legal consequences.

The law is the law—emotions don’t nullify it.

Now, why do we think God’s laws should work any differently?

Heaven Has a Courtroom Too

Just like we have earthly laws, there are spiritual laws too—and the Bible reveals them clearly.

Satan is called “the accuser of the brethren” in Revelation 12:10 (NKJV)—a very legal term. He’s a prosecutor in the courts of heaven, accusing God’s people day and night.

But thank God, we have Jesus—our Advocate!

1 John 2:1 (NKJV) says, “…if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”

We even see this courtroom scene in Zechariah 3:1 (NKJV): “Then he showed me Joshua the high priest standing before the Angel of the LORD, and Satan standing at his right hand to oppose him.”  Spiritual legal proceedings in action.

Our Emotions Don’t Rewrite God’s Law

If the Bible gives us laws to live by, why do we fight them when our emotions don’t agree?

Let me be real—God corrected me on this. I used to debate a friend passionately over a  sensitive topic - abortion, blaming his stance on his gender and lack of empathy. But in truth, he was using Scripture—and I was just being emotional.

Yes, we have free will. But there are still consequences to using it wrongly.

Me, gearing up to argue… all because emotions said, “Ready For The Smoke”

Alright, let’s get into it—abortion. Yeah, the topic that had me this close to snapping on my friend. But instead of letting emotions run the show, let’s slow down and get to the truth.

As a woman, I’ll never claim to understand everyone’s situation. I speak this from a biblical lens, not to belittle emotions, but to elevate the truth. I understand how delicate and painful this subject can be. But I’m not speaking from emotion—I’m speaking from the Word of God.

Abortion is a sensitive issue. No matter the reason—financial hardship, incest, the father is abusive. The Word of God calls it murder. And even when there are deeply emotional and complex reasons behind it, the law of God does not change.

You may have had a “good reason,” but repentance is still needed. We don’t get to excuse sin because our intentions were noble. The enemy doesn’t care why we sinned—he just uses it as an open door.

I’ve heard stories where post-abortion, women faced unexpected afflictions—infertility, plans falling apart, even health issues. The point is this: sin gives the enemy access, and he’s always looking for legal ground to take more.

The enemy doesn’t care about our reasons. He only needs a legal right. And sin—unrepented—gives him that right.

Even if the child came through sin ( fornication or adultery) , God still has a purpose for that life. Yes God hates the sin , but the life is still a gift . Jeremiah 1:5 (NKJV) says, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you.”

We must seek God even in the most difficult decisions and stand on His Word.

Wrong is wrong. Sin is sin. Period. We cannot let emotions justify sin.

Emotions vs. Forgiveness

Let’s make it personal. I’ve struggled with forgiveness at times. Some people have hurt me so badly, I’ve wanted to clap back hard. No fake “God bless you” here—I wanted real revenge. But the Word-says:

Matthew 6:14

“For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”

And that’s a law in the spirit. Forgiveness isn’t a suggestion—it’s a requirement.

I don’t always feel like forgiving, but I must choose God’s Word over my feelings.

Our Emotions Are Fickle. God’s Word Is Not.

Truthfully, this area isn’t easy. Our emotions are unstable, fickle, and unreliable. Feelings can lie. Emotions can deceive. Popular opinion can be wrong. But God’s Word? It’s forever settled. “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death” (Proverbs 14:12 NKJV). We often use worldly wisdom and emotions to make decisions rather than God’s righteous judgment. Jesus reminds us clearly: “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment” (John 7:24 NKJV).

The Struggle Is Real: Emotions vs. Obedience

We must become lovers of the truth—the Word of God—above our emotions. Sin can never be justified by our emotional or situational reasoning. Let’s repent, humble ourselves, and seek God’s forgiveness sincerely, even when our intentions seemed justified.

Remember, you’re not the ultimate judge—God is. It’s prideful to think we decide right and wrong based on how we feel. He is a righteous judge, and we should always seek His counsel.

Let’s walk this out together, seeking His grace to place His Word above our emotions each day. It’s not easy, but with God’s help, we can truly live lives that reflect His holiness and truth..

So today, let’s ask ourselves:

Am I obeying my feelings… or am I obeying God?

Just because it feels right doesn’t make it righteous.

Let’s be people who love truth more than our feelings.

Let’s love His truth—even when it cuts.

With love, grace, and conviction,

A fellow truth-chaser still learning to walk above the waves of emotion.

MUSIC TIME !

1. Tomi Favored & Yinka Okeleye – “We Love You Jesus”

Man… this song right here? It makes me want to just cry, melt, and bask in the overwhelming love of Christ. It’s that tender, tear-soaked kind of worship that reminds you just how beautiful it is to be loved by Jesus. A true anthem of intimacy. I love, love, love this song!

2. CalledOut Music – “Day by Day”

Now this one is a bold declaration! The lyrics say, “Day by day I will follow Your ways—I no send anybody.” Yup! Aka, I will work out my salvation with fear and trembling (Philippians 2:12). A daily yes to Jesus, no matter what the world says.

3. A Raw, Unfiltered Conversation with One of My Favorite Teachers – Apostle Arome Osayi

If you know Apostle Arome, then you already know—there’s no sugarcoating, just deep wells of wisdom and truth. In this powerful interview, he dives into topics like curses, generational patterns, and so much more.

I’ve grown tremendously through his teachings and continue to be challenged and blessed by the depth he carries. Watch this, take notes, and apply what you learn. You won’t leave the same.

Watch the interview here 🎬