🔥 Consistency: The Secret Sauce

✨ NEW SERIES DROP ✨In addition to the blogs, we’re kicking off something fresh: bite-sized truth bombs pulled straight from the blog posts—because some lines just need their own spotlight.

📍Today’s Highlight: Consistency — The Secret Sauce

Here’s the hard truth:

Your relationship with God is a commitment.

• You seek Him when you're happy.

• You seek Him when you're heartbroken.

• You seek Him when you're confused.

• You seek Him when you feel nothing.

• You seek Him even when you don’t feel like it.

Like a good marriage—you don’t walk away just because it's a rough day. You don’t ghost God when it gets hard.

By His grace, I’ve shown up daily for 2+ years. Not always strong. But always present.

• When it made no sense? I showed up.

• When I was blessed? I showed up.

• When I was broken? Still showed up.

  
  

And I’m still here. Still surrendered. Still faithful.

Because if you don’t discipline yourself in your walk with God...

It will fade. Love takes nurturing. Faith takes showing up. Every. Single. Day.

🎵 Music Time — but with a twist! 🎵

I had to share this powerful video that truly shook me:👉 Watch here. (Watch this. Seriously)

This man of God shared his powerful testimony—how God delivered him from narcissism and rejection, how he fully surrendered, and how the Lord revealed his wife to him. Yep… and they married within TWO months!

But here’s where it gets intense: They weren’t prepared for the spiritual warfare.

Why? Because both of them came from dysfunctional bloodlines—and those generational spirits? Oh, they came swinging. 😤

He said, “Our bloodlines were fighting each other.”  Dysfunction vs dysfunction. Generational curses clashing in the spirit.

💥 He had to war in prayer.

💥 Break bloodline curses.

💥 Fight for his home in the Spirit. 

The only way out? Holy living + praying in the Spirit to break those bloodline patterns.

Because the enemy was gunning for their marriage. And let’s be honest… kingdom marriages are under attack like never before.

Some of y’all wonder why relationships keep crumbling—and truthfully?

That spirit of divorce, separation, or dysfunction is still lurking in the background…waiting to repeat itself.

Moral of the message?

🛡️ If you come from a broken background, you must be prayed up, live holy, and be spiritually alert.

💍 And do not marry someone who can’t go to war with you in the Spirit.

Because if you’re unequally yoked in battle—you’re FINISHED before you begin (THAT PART!).

💍 This is how we choose a spouse in the Kingdom.

Let’s run the checklist 📝:

✅ Do they love God for real? Not just church goers, they have daily communion with God.

✅ Does the Word of God matter more than their feelings?

✅ Do they actually value holiness (it's a lifestyle), or just talk about it?

✅ Can they submit to God’s divine order in marriage—biblically, not just culturally?

✅ Can they raise Godly seeds, not just cute kids?

✅ Can they war in the Spirit?

✅ Do they have a heart to forgive, or are they emotionally petty (Always trying to 1 UP)?

If these boxes aren’t checked, run.

• Don’t confuse potential with purpose.

• Marriage is ministry—not a project.

Choose prayerfully. Your peace depends on it.

This interview was a wake-up call.

Thank God for men who won’t give up on the Word of God. 🙏

• Let’s be that generation.

• Let’s break the cycle.

Remember this: You will never lose a man—or a woman meant for you—chasing God!