Apologize and Be Free: Breaking Limitations Through Humility
- Whitney Anujuo
- May 6
- 4 min read
Updated: May 7
A simple “I’m sorry” might be the key to your peace of mind!
A Message I Didn’t Plan to Write
This might be the fastest blog I’ve ever written—meaning it’s urgent. Someone out there needs this now.
This message was sparked by a teaching from one of the teachers who helped ignite my hunger for God. After listening to him, I started reading my Bible front to back—no lie. And what he said about apologizing hit deep.
You’re Stuck Because You Won’t Say Sorry
Let’s be honest. As believers, we sometimes hurt people.
And yes, we run to God, we repent, we cry out to God… but sometimes, God wants more.
Sometimes, God will convict you to apologize to the actual person—face to face, voice to voice, heart to heart.
You might say:
“But Lord, I already repented to You!”
“It’s been years—I’ve moved on! They’ve probably moved on too”
“What’s the point now?”
Valid questions. I’ve asked them too. But here’s the thing: seeking forgiveness and reconciliation are spiritual protocols!
And sometimes, you need to apologize —not for closure, not for validation, but because it’s the right thing to do.
Sometimes, A Verbal Apology Is Required
Let me tell you what this teacher shared:
When he gave his life to Christ, the Holy Spirit prompted him to go back and apologize to several women he had dated and wronged—some years ago.
He didn’t want to. He wrestled with the shame. But he couldn’t ignore the conviction.
So, one by one, he apologized.
Some responses were gracious.
I imagine Some were cold.
And one? One woman cursed him out !
But he obeyed God anyway.
And after that last apology, he said he felt like a spiritual weight lifted off his shoulders.
The Spiritual Weight of Unspoken Sorrys
God may be pressing your heart to apologize to someone you’ve hurt.
And you’ve been dodging the thought. You’re hoping the conviction will fade.
This is your confirmation: Don’t ignore the Holy Spirit.
That apology may be the very thing unlocking the peace you’ve been praying for.
Whether they forgive you or not, do the right thing.
Don’t use a middleman. Don’t hide behind a text.
Man up. Woman up. Reach out.
The apology must come from the heart.
My Personal Story
When I began truly walking with God, I repented for a lot of my past.
But there was one person the Holy Spirit wouldn’t let me forget.
Someone I hurt badly over five years ago.
I resisted at first—shame had a tight grip on me.
But God kept pressing.
The truth? I felt ashamed
I didn’t want to face the part of me that caused that kind of pain. But God didn’t care about my feelings—He cared about my character and doing what was righteous!
So I gathered the courage. I reached out. I apologized.
And yes—I cried.
To my surprise, she forgave me, hugged me, and our friendship was restored.
But let me be clear: restoration is not the goal—obedience is.
Even if nothing is restored when you apologize, your heart is realigned with God’s righteousness.
That moment crushed my pride.
It reminded me that even when time has passed, wrong is still wrong.
Pride Keeps Us in Bondage
Pride will have you pretending you’re “fine” while silently suffering.
Pride will whisper, “It’s too late.”
But God is whispering, “It’s time to make it right.”
God Cares About Reconciliation
Matthew 5:23–24 (NKJV):y
“If you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there… First be reconciled to your brother.”
→ God values reconciliation even before worship. That’s how serious apologizing is.
A Simple Apology Can Change Everything
Let this sink in:
• A simple apology can break limitations.
• A simple apology can be the deliverance you need.
• A simple apology might save your future.
• A simple apology can set your spirit free.
Yes, we pray. Yes, we fast. But some breakthroughs require action. And sometimes, that action is as simple—and as hard—as saying sorry. Sometimes, obedience looks like an uncomfortable conversation .
Final Word: Apologize Even If It Costs You
If the Holy Spirit is convicting you to apologize, don’t delay.
Don’t overthink it. Don’t wait for the perfect time.
Just obey.
Whether they hug you or curse you out—do it anyway.
Whether they accept it or reject it—do it anyway.
Why?
Because God told you to.
Because freedom is on the other side of obedience.
Because pride should never have the final say.
Let This Be Your Prayer Today
“Lord, give me the humility and courage to apologize where I need to.
Help me obey You even when it’s uncomfortable. Break every spirit of pride in me!"
If This Convicted You…
Don’t wait.
Don’t delay.
Apologize and be free.
You can’t move forward until you make things right.
🎵🎶MUSIC TIME🎵🎶
🎵🎶Marcus Rogers – “Turf”
This one right here? Melody meets warfare! A groove that makes you nod your head while stomping on the enemy’s lies. The beat hits, but those lyrics!
🎵🎶 Judikay – “Imegi”
This song is a whole heart posture.
“In all things, I will rejoice…”
It’s that gentle reminder to praise Him when it’s good, bad, or silent. A true worship anthem for the storm and the sunshine.
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